- consider children's comments in the context of their age and their emotional state, ensuring not to over-state a child's intellect or sensitivity
- consider that children may attempt to please both parents, offering different wishes and comments depending on who they are speaking to
- take great care when asking children to express an opinion
- never interrogate children for information about the other parent
- listen when your children want to discuss matters spontaneously
- resist using conversations with children as 'proof' of the other parent's shortcomings
- acknowledge any anxiety or disappointment expressed
- consider using a qualified mediator to find ways to work together in the children's best interests
- consider whether your children use open social media platforms
- never criticise or blame the other parent in front of the children.
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